women....?

just got back from mamak with cavin. Had a long chat bout quite a lot of stuff but the main topic was about work and life…..the neverending questioning….

As a summary, there’s this thing which we can’t seem to understand or have a clear explanation, with regards to the female gender. Why is it that there’s this requirement of the guys that they would like to date or want to be with, have to be taller than them? Well, call it whatever you want, but I just can’t get the grasp of what’s the logic behind this. I do admit that I’m not in the tall guy category but what the heck….what’s with a person’s height that makes such a difference? Does it mean that a guy who is taller than his partner would be able to provide security?

Then comes the next question, what’s with women wanting to look for guys who are older than them? Agreeable that it has been the culture or even upbringing that the guy is normally older than the girl…but what’s wrong with dating a younger guy? 1 explanation I can think of would be the mindset of these guys. I don’t blame that sometimes the guys that these women date are immature and shallow, but then again, that doesn’t mean that all guys are like that. There are times where the guy is even smarter or more mature in mind than their so called older partner. So what’s with these kind of criterion? Guys are to be blames for their incompetence? Just because a few black sheeps are like that doesn’t mean the whole population of the male species are like that. What bout women who are already considered adults but can’t even plan their lives properly? Shoot me or kill me for that matter, but I think it’s really absurd to judge a guy by the way he looks. Why should be person be judged based on their appearance? True to the fact that your outlook reflects your personality but that’s not always the case. I’d vouch for that statement as the REAL me is not a reflection of what I look like externally.

Can anybody enlighten me on this? Call it male ego or whatever, but I am just not convinced by these reasons or rather excuses. How many taller and older guys can actually fulfill your requirements? Isn’t the consideration supposed to be as a whole package rather than just what you see from the outside? Why does it have to look like a taboo and a disadvantage for guys who are younger and vertically challenged?

Think i better stop here and get some zzz before I get totally burnt out later at work.